I found this recently and loved it:

WHEN SHE PASSED AWAY

You can shed tears that she is gone

or you can smile because she has lived.

Your can close your eyes

and pray that she’ll come back

or you can open your eyes and see all that she’s left

Your heart can be empty because you can’t see her

or you can be full of the love you shared.

You can turn your back on tomorrow

And live yesterday

or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday

You can remember her and only that she’s gone

or you can cherish her memory and let it live on.

You can cry and close your mind,

be empty and turn your back

or you can do what she’d want;

Smile, open your eyes, love and go on.

and

Say not in grief that she is no more

but say in thankfulness that she was. 

A death is not the extinguishing of a light,

but the putting out of the lamp because

the dawn has come.